My husband of 23 years, died on June first.

[Uben]

4. Sorry for your loss.....

.....I know your pain. I lost my wife on Feb. 5th. It was undoubtedly the hardest thing I have ever endured. If there is anything I can do, ask. You've made it through the funeral, and now things are settling down, and you are alone (assuming your experience mirrors mine).
If you are dealing with medical expenses, insurance companies, etc., I may be able to help you figure some of this out. I have just finished navigating through this. Everyone's situation is different, but I know I was overwhelmed with medical bills in just the two months my wife was ill. Also, there is the probate process, if your husband had a will. It may or may not need to be probated, depending on your situation. Any of these things you have questions on, feel free to ask.

Right now, dealing with your grief is job one. It's hard.....but it will eventually ease as time passes. Please IM me if you want. I had a very sweet person here on this forum offer me the same in my time of need. It made a difference (Thanks Hep)

These are the times we have to lean on others to help us heal. Don't be afraid to ask.

Uben