My husband of 23 years, died on June first.

[Uben]

13. Im' taking time to grieve

I know it feels overwheming at times....all the legal crap associated with some deaths. I have dealt with it....separate properties, trusts, name changes, account closings, etc. It's the last thing you want to deal with while grieving, yet it is still important to deal with it as soon as possible, so we do.
I'm about done. Now, I can grieve on my own time and not have to worry about who needs what. It is sad that this is how it is, but it is. It has taken six months to get here. While my grief has abated a bit, I still grieve...everyday...several times a day. I suppose I will until I can replace that love with something as fulfilling as it was. That may take some time.