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Bereavement

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auntAgonist

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3. Don't EVER worry about maybe making someone feel worse ok? ?
Thu Aug 23, 2012, 10:04 PM
Aug 2012

it does help to get it out and sometimes it helps pull it out of other people too.

I've a double whammy today. Surgery yesterday causing a lot of pain etc etc and the 15th anniversary of my Mum's death. We never get over it .. never. Oh it gets 'different' some days but we never get over it.

Some days you're going to feel really good about the way things are going for you at that moment and then the next? Wham... it hits you again. You'll be stronger though, through it all you will be stronger.


Don't you think he would want you to be ok? I'm sure my Mum would want me ok too ... we can try and cry and try some more.

Always, I and many others are here for you Polly.


I'm sorry if this post doesn't make a bunch of sense ... drugs y'know.


Kesha

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