Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Bereavement

In reply to the discussion: My brother recently passed [View all]

libodem

(19,288 posts)
13. Picture
Sun May 19, 2013, 11:02 AM
May 2013

[img][/img]

Poem:

Perfection Wasted
And another regrettable thing about death
is the ceasing of your own brand of magic,
which took a whole lifetime to develop an market-
the quips, the witticisims, the slant
adjusted to just a few, those loved ones nearest
the lip of the stage, their soft faces blanched
in the glow, their laughter close to tears,
their tears confused with their diamond earrings,
their warm pooled breath in and out with your heartbeat,
their response and your performance twinned.
The jokes over the phone. The memories packed
in the rapid-access file. The whole act.
Who will do it again? That's it: no one;
imitators and descendants aren't the same.

-John Updike

Recommendations

0 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

My brother recently passed [View all] libodem May 2013 OP
I need to try it again libodem May 2013 #1
Here we go libodem May 2013 #2
So sorry for your family. I like the hat. He looks like a character. applegrove May 2013 #5
I have to leave now to go pick up his ashes libodem May 2013 #3
he looks so young. i am terribly sorry auntAgonist May 2013 #7
libodem, I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words. ((hug)).. Little Star May 2013 #4
I'm so very sorry libodem. polly7 May 2013 #6
Thank you all my friends libodem May 2013 #8
thinking of you and wanting you auntAgonist May 2013 #9
I'm sorry for the loss of your brother....my livetohike May 2013 #10
He did libodem May 2013 #11
I'm having a little trouble with the pictures libodem May 2013 #12
Picture libodem May 2013 #13
What a beautiful poem. NCarolinawoman May 2013 #14
and let me add.... NCarolinawoman May 2013 #15
Thank you libodem May 2013 #17
It was cut out of the New Yorker libodem May 2013 #16
Latest Discussions»Support Forums»Bereavement»My brother recently passe...»Reply #13