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csziggy

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3. Thank you
Wed Jan 1, 2014, 11:56 PM
Jan 2014

I've been talking to a grief counselor. I want to be sure that my anger at my little sister does not hurt my Mom or make my older sister's life more difficult. (My older sister is executor and she is also in charge of Mom's care at this point.) If I have to be civil to my little sister to make things easier for the people I do still care about, I will - but it will be very hard for me.

In a way I think making the bears will be a penance for me and a way to set aside my anger and to think about my grief - something I have been avoiding.

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People deal with this different ways BlueStreak Jan 2014 #1
Thank you csziggy Jan 2014 #3
. NRaleighLiberal Jan 2014 #2
Thank you csziggy Jan 2014 #4
..and thank you. What Sue and I will probably do is mix our trip - NRaleighLiberal Jan 2014 #5
That Southwest coast is pretty csziggy Jan 2014 #6
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