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Coping with Divorce or Separation

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Lady Freedom Returns

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Tue Jul 30, 2013, 07:35 PM Jul 2013

I just got kicked out of a ten year relationship. [View all]

Me and my SO have been threw hell together. We have always been a team to recon with.

Then we got to Tucson AZ. It was the place for us. But things changed...

The treatments the Doc was doing, he warned us about mood changes. But we had a devil in the mix that we did not know of, a guy we met in Tucson.

This guy glued himself to my SO. He was always around. We just got our place, we needed time together, but this guy was always coming over, always in the way.

My SO said that I should listen to tis guy's advice and I went with what my SO wanted. I should have listened to my gut about this guy.

When my SO started to get grumpy, this guy would try to tell me I needed to leave my SO. "He is a trained Marine! What if it gets bad?"

I ignored him. In knew my man better than that, so this guy worked over my SO. My SO was on meds. He was not really thinking right and this guy used it. The night before I was tossed, I heard them talking, that guy came over so he could talk with my SO with me out of the way. I was supposed to be asleep. I usually was at that time of night. I heard him point out all kinds of bad about me, telling my guy I was a nut and he would be better off without me.

I was fighting with DES about my address due to some paperwork thing on their end, I was trying to fix it. I wanted to talk to my SO about it but that guy was always there. He hit me for housekeeping and cooking. I never was the Homemaker in the relationship. I was the breadwinner of the two, and my SO was a way better cook.

But this guy used it as the points to how I was holding my SO back. All our plans were uprooted by this guy.

This guy came in and wrecked my relationship. I was warned by his ex that he would do that. he saw him do it before. She never knew why she married him. She said he just did not like women and like to see them hurt. She told me exactly what he would do. I thought it was just sour grapes due t them just divorcing.

Why did this guy do it, I don't know. I ended up being tossed on a bus backed to Joplin. I have lost the man I have loved for 10 years and the town I feel in love with. All because of this stranger that came in for the last year. I hurt so bad and nothing to do about it

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I just got kicked out of a ten year relationship. [View all] Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 OP
Hugs. I wish there was something I could do to help. idwiyo Jul 2013 #1
Thanks. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #2
I'm really sorry you're having to go Cha Jul 2013 #3
Thanks! Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #4
Hugs to you, LFR. sheshe2 Jul 2013 #5
Thanks. Lady Freedom Returns Aug 2013 #6
My point of view is this: SheilaT Aug 2013 #7
Like many coming to this forum I'm sure I have been there... DuaneBidoux Aug 2013 #8
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