Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Coping with Divorce or Separation

MLAA

(18,694 posts)

17. Sending you 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

Reply to babydollhead (Original post)

Fri Mar 26, 2021, 11:43 PM

Mar 2021

Just have to say it, he is an asshole and or coward for handling something this important via an email. He may have some good qualities, but that is real jerk behavior and everyone deserves better than than.

I liked an earlier poster’s advice to get a really good lawyer. If you live in a small town with limited options lock in the best one FAST.
I know your heart is breaking and hard to think practically right now, but that was some very sound advice. And if it turns out down the road you don’t need one, so be it.

💞💞💕💕💖💞💞

Edit history

Please sign in to view edit histories.

Recommendations

0 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

36 replies

= new reply since forum marked as read

Highlight:

anybody here? I just got dumped via email from my husband of 30 years [View all] babydollhead Mar 2021 OP

Not exactly in that manner but I lived through a divorce Boydog Mar 2021 #1

thank you babydollhead Mar 2021 #19

I'm so sorry this happened to you soothsayer Mar 2021 #2

I was blindsided. babydollhead Mar 2021 #20

If I hadn't gotten dumped by my first husband, I would not have found the broiles Mar 2021 #3

what a terribly shitty thing for him to do. Dyedinthewoolliberal Mar 2021 #4

it was out of the blue babydollhead Mar 2021 #18

I am Sorry Mary in S. Carolina Mar 2021 #5

I was ambush served with papers by my ex. At 29 years I thought we were doing OK. mn9driver Mar 2021 #6

Modern world Dear John Email Streaming divorce next Hope things get better for you rickyhall Mar 2021 #7

Dumped by email - that is cold and cowardly. Marie Marie Mar 2021 #8

sending hugs to you,,,, KarenS Mar 2021 #9

In my case it took two years to get over it Cicada Mar 2021 #10

What the fuck? vercetti2021 Mar 2021 #11

Happened to me 10 years ago after 40 years of marriage zeusdogmom Mar 2021 #12

Wow. I'm going through a breakup right now too. Lunabell Mar 2021 #13

Maybe I'm just old... -misanthroptimist Mar 2021 #14

Oh geez that is terrible. PortTack Mar 2021 #15

WTF ! Save the email for your lawyer don't trash it in anger or anything luckone Mar 2021 #16

Sending you 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 MLAA Mar 2021 #17

2 weeks before Christmas got a note in the mail box. multigraincracker Mar 2021 #21

I got shanked after 30 years. CentralMass Mar 2021 #22

I'm so sorry. Just make sure you get everything you need financially. If he's the kind Scrivener7 Mar 2021 #23

Please go over to a website called chumplady.com and read it all. I'm happily married, but Nay Mar 2021 #24

thank you. babydollhead Mar 2021 #27

Freeze accounts and open a new checking account. You don't know what he's done now, but stop Hestia Mar 2021 #25

thank you. babydollhead Mar 2021 #29

I bet it is scary. Sorry that this happened to you. JanMichael May 2024 #33

I'm so sorry AwakeAtLast Mar 2021 #26

that is so horrible what happened to you. babydollhead Mar 2021 #28

My first marriage lasted less than nine months. RipVanWinkle Jun 2022 #30

thank you babydollhead Jun 2022 #31

there is a lot to say about this, but I'll keep it to the point. Layzeebeaver Mar 2024 #32

I don't regret the divorce, I regret the time wasted... Theresa Santini Oct 11 #34

Well, that's sh!tty Schlocko Nov 20 #35

Thank you. babydollhead Dec 12 #36