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cilla4progress

(26,064 posts)
Mon Nov 18, 2019, 11:30 AM Nov 2019

Well, just cancelled out on attending a group Thanksgiving and [View all]

It feels. GREAT!

I was actually mostly honest after making some measly remarks about taking care of deferred maintenance around the place. They are eating at ONE PM - while it is still DAYLIGHT - close to a crime in our household! 🤣

I said that eating mid-day like that - being inside for this nature- and action-crazy gal makes me "depressed, unhappy, unpleasant." Invited hostess for a hike (and leftovers - we will make dinner at home, just the two of us, with our DOG and assorted other pets) another day, stating being outside in nature is my "medication and religion."

We usually spend TG with mom-in-law, but going Christmas instead this year with adult daughter who lives a couple states away and is coming home then.

I suppose I will end up mostly alone in my dotage, should I outlive my husband. We have just the one child, and are very close, but there's only so much one kid can be expected to do.

Oh well, for this LONER, maybe not the worst fate!

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Hey,it does work. Wellstone ruled Nov 2019 #1
Well....getting pushback... cilla4progress Nov 2019 #2
Media is the driver of this Wellstone ruled Nov 2019 #3
Hang in there. yonder Nov 2019 #4
My dad MFM008 Nov 2019 #5
Yay for your assertive, can-do attitude! You made the best call for you and littlemissmartypants Nov 2019 #6
Stop in for dessert Mopar151 Nov 2019 #7
Great ideas - cilla4progress Nov 2019 #8
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