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ADD/ADHD

In reply to the discussion: There's no such thing as ADD. [View all]

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
5. It's amazing
Sun Oct 19, 2014, 07:42 PM
Oct 2014

how often I've heard this excuse for students with poor self-management skills and poor study habits, ADD or not.

Some kids are bored because they've been conditioned by adults in their lives to think they're supposed to be bored.

As a teacher, my response is:

"Your attitude is a choice. "Bored" is an attitude that you can choose and hide behind. Or you can choose to find something of interest in what you are learning, and thus engage your brain. It's up to you, but if you choose to be bored, you have no one to blame but yourself."

I know there are legitimately tedious tasks in any student's day. That's just life. Personally, I find many routine chores around the house to be tedious. That doesn't mean that I don't take out the trash or clean the cat litter because I find it "boring." When something is tedious, I find a way to get it done and move on. I share ways to do those things with my students, as well. Of course, just because I find taking out the trash to be tedious, doesn't mean that many ADD/ADHD people won't grab the trash bags or bins with relief, because it gets them up, out, and moving. "Boring" or "tedious" is subjective.

I currently have a very bright adhd student. I've banned the word "boring" from his vocabulary in my classroom. Why? Because he uses it for every task that he can't finish in under 2 minutes. It's "boring" to him when a task requires multiple steps and an extended focus to complete. He prefers math; even with a page of complex problems, each problem only takes a couple of minutes, giving him the relief of closure as he finishes each one.

Writing, though...requires thinking, organizing those thoughts, drafting, proof-reading, editing, re-writing...it's "boring," not because his skills are low, or he has nothing to say, but because it's really hard work for him to stick to longer tasks. He communicates quite openly about it. If he has to focus his thinking, he doesn't like it, so it's "boring." If nothing else, he's expanding his vocabulary, lol. Since he can't use the word "boring" to complain, he's finding a rapidly expanding list of creative synonyms. He's actually spending time LOOKING for, and planning for, ways to say something is "boring" without the "b" word, because that's part of what he does to excuse himself from anything that taxes his attention span. All without realizing how much attention he's paying to finding new ways to say something.

Much of his assigned written work is in content areas. But...when I have to assign a prompt to assess his writing skills, I'm going to set "boring" free and let him write about everything that's boring, and all the ways to complain about it. I'll bet he'll stay focused all the way through the process.

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There's no such thing as ADD. [View all] Phentex Apr 2014 OP
Not "simply" a catch-all diagnosis. Nitram Apr 2014 #1
Or "act IN". School makes some kids crazy. Really. n/t Smarmie Doofus Apr 2014 #2
It's amazing LWolf Oct 2014 #5
I was bored out of my mind in 5th grade and would probably be diagnosed with ADD today. Fortunately, Nitram Sep 2019 #7
Did you explain to your student how focused he had to be Blue_true Dec 2019 #9
A little disagreement mikahawkins Oct 2020 #15
welcome to DU gopiscrap Oct 2020 #16
I got bored in school I_UndergroundPanther Apr 2022 #18
ADD is not simply a catch-all diagnosis. mapol Sep 2019 #6
"no two people afflicted with ADD or ADHD are the same. Nobody knows what causes this kind of thing" Nitram Sep 2019 #8
ADHD is generally defined is a lower than everage level of dopamine in the frontal cortex. jorgevlorgan Sep 2020 #11
Thanks, jorge, for the informative post. I'm glad to hear you've benefitted from ritalin. Nitram Sep 2020 #12
Thanks! I've only had it for a few months and I am still in disbelief of how much it has helped me. jorgevlorgan Sep 2020 #13
Yeah, right. There's also no such thing as.... meow2u3 Apr 2014 #3
Drives me crazy when people say Add doesn't exsist really then whats made trublu992 Jun 2014 #4
Have you come to understand more about your ADD? Blue_true Dec 2019 #10
Wes Clark was diagnosed True Blue American May 2023 #22
Sorry that people have given you such a hard time about it, trublu992. WSSlover Apr 2021 #17
not know ClaudiaBradley Oct 2020 #14
Because if it exists, it complicates their judgement of bad, lazy kids. quakerboy Nov 2022 #19
Better late than never Blappy Nov 2022 #20
Adhd is fucking real I_UndergroundPanther Nov 2022 #21
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