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Elder-caregivers

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femmedem

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Fri Dec 20, 2019, 08:57 PM Dec 2019

My mother has Alzheimer's and I just got her one of those robotic cats. [View all]

Last edited Sat Dec 21, 2019, 05:20 PM - Edit history (1)

I wasn't sure if she would think it was real or know it was a make-believe cat, but my sister sent me a video of her petting the cat (I live on the other side of the country) and she looked so loving and happy. And this evening, when I spoke with her, she told me how much personality the cat has, what a darling it is and how it likes everybody and isn't skittish. It's the first conversation we've had in a long time where she did most of the talking.

I think it's the best gift I've ever given her.

Edited to add: I never dreamed that my post would draw attention outside of the elder-caregivers group. I'm so glad I posted and let more people know about them.

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That is so sweet! 50 Shades Of Blue Dec 2019 #1
How wonderful! Freedomofspeech Dec 2019 #2
They are using robot cats in nursing homes. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #3
That is neat, I thought when i read the op it was one of those dewsgirl Dec 2019 #7
That is exactly the model I got for her. n/t femmedem Dec 2019 #8
When it started purring I felt my heart slowing down. What a great idea. catbyte Dec 2019 #46
I was watching the video... Trueblue Texan Jan 2020 #79
And your sweet conversation with your Mom Alliepoo Dec 2019 #4
Thank you. Yes, I can't stop smiling. femmedem Dec 2019 #23
Damn, that's nice packman Dec 2019 #5
That's so sweet! femmedem Dec 2019 #10
My mom's nursing home had both a cat and a fairly large dog roaming aound freely. maddiemom Dec 2019 #58
Lovely! So happy for you. xo nt babylonsister Dec 2019 #6
Thank you, babylonsister. femmedem Dec 2019 #12
Awwww blm Dec 2019 #9
I hadn't heard of these so I googled to find this video. How wonderful! hlthe2b Dec 2019 #11
I only learned about them recently, so that's why I wanted to spread the word. femmedem Dec 2019 #13
Dolls are also well received in memory units. 3Hotdogs Dec 2019 #14
That makes sense. Maybe later I'll get her a doll, too, down the road. femmedem Dec 2019 #17
We gave my mom a realistic doll and she just loved it. RGinNJ Dec 2019 #32
I would appreciate information on how to buy .... Shoonra Dec 2019 #15
Google Ageless Innovation Joy for All companion pets. femmedem Dec 2019 #19
my local Kroger pharmacy has the cats on their shelf. Grasswire2 Dec 2019 #62
yep, I just got back from flying out to visit.... dhill926 Dec 2019 #16
Aw. Glad you were able to visit and see her smile. Cookies just say love, don't they? n/t femmedem Dec 2019 #22
K&R! Omaha Steve Dec 2019 #18
I'm always happy to see you posting, Omaha Steve. femmedem Dec 2019 #20
Take care of yourself Omaha Steve Dec 2019 #69
That is really touching Mickju Dec 2019 #21
Wow, I had no idea that robotic cats existed. PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2019 #24
This is WONDERFUL! Maybe they can make more varieties...did you hear one resident comment Karadeniz Dec 2019 #25
I'd change the meow, too. But it doesn't seem to matter to the people for whom they're designed. femmedem Dec 2019 #41
+1000 catbyte Dec 2019 #44
I'd make them heavier. These weigh only about 4 lbs. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #54
Ditto for us. TrollBuster9090 Dec 2019 #26
That's so good to hear. femmedem Dec 2019 #29
It was very sweet to watch. Heartbreaking, too, of course. TrollBuster9090 Dec 2019 #51
So, sweet. iluvtennis Dec 2019 #27
How sweet. Thanks for sharing. RestoreAmerica2020 Dec 2019 #28
These just came up in a meeting at work dflprincess Dec 2019 #30
Wow, I didn't know that! femmedem Dec 2019 #35
Wow, my mom had Alzheimer's so I can just picture this. tosh Dec 2019 #31
I understand. I was tearing up watching the video of my mother petting it. femmedem Dec 2019 #37
Thank you so much for sharing this. Dem2theMax Dec 2019 #33
I hope it brings her as much happiness as it brings my mother. femmedem Dec 2019 #34
She's a dog person. I just went to the website Dem2theMax Dec 2019 #36
It sounds perfect! femmedem Dec 2019 #38
I am just so happy you posted this! Dem2theMax Dec 2019 #39
That's so thoughtful of you! Please let us know what happens. catbyte Dec 2019 #42
I absolutely will do so! Dem2theMax Dec 2019 #48
That brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful gift. catbyte Dec 2019 #40
The last time I visited her, I played a lot of the videos you post on DU for her. femmedem Dec 2019 #43
Oh, that's wonderful to hear. I'm so glad that she enjoyed them. catbyte Dec 2019 #47
So sweet! I'm so glad you did this for her. Maraya1969 Dec 2019 #45
Oh how sweet. I am so happy for both of you that you found this source of comfort for your mother. crickets Dec 2019 #49
The problem with real cats... dawg day Dec 2019 #50
doggies will always love you. demosincebirth Dec 2019 #52
When the owners come home... keithbvadu2 Dec 2019 #68
+1000 demosincebirth Dec 2019 #71
Wow, wonderful gift that keeps on giving. FM123 Dec 2019 #53
Thank you for posting! deek Dec 2019 #55
I LOVE this! RazBerryBeret Dec 2019 #56
You're welcome and I hope it brings her great joy. femmedem Dec 2019 #59
Best Gift Ever!! RazBerryBeret Dec 2019 #72
Oh, I'm so happy for her! femmedem Dec 2019 #75
My mother also has advanced Alzheimer's and adores her cats lettucebe Dec 2019 #57
I'm so happy to hear that it continues to bring your mother happiness femmedem Dec 2019 #60
I did for my mom, too, a few years ago. She loved it, and it was a hit with everyone who saw it at highplainsdem Dec 2019 #61
This is wonderful to hear. femmedem Dec 2019 #65
nice Demovictory9 Dec 2019 #63
Thank you for sharing. DesertRat Dec 2019 #64
We just ordered one for my mom on your rec. AllyCat Dec 2019 #66
Please let me know how she likes it! femmedem Dec 2019 #67
Femmedem, she LOVED it!! AllyCat Dec 2019 #73
I'm so, so happy to read this! femmedem Dec 2019 #74
So wonderful. AllyCat Dec 2019 #76
It means a lot apkhgp Dec 2019 #70
A couple of years ago, I saw a FB video where they gave unresponsive elder women extremely life-like NewDayOranges Dec 2019 #77
I often suggest baby dolls for dementia patients... Trueblue Texan Jan 2020 #78
You can get them at the Joy For All website or at Amazon. femmedem Jan 2020 #80
Precious. Trueblue Texan Jan 2020 #81
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