My brother died a couple weeks ago. He had a girlfriend that was a controlling

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12. It's a bitter pill

when something like this happens. My cousin put off making a will until it was too late. Her estate, about what your brother's was, went to someone who had no contact for over 30 years. I can't begin to tell you the scam she has pulled on welfare her whole life.

Anyway - I hope you can look into this. Otherwise, do what I do - say to yourself - don't think about it every time it pops into your head. Don't let it eat you up.

Make a will everybody. You can even do it yourself.