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Chellee

(2,217 posts)
18. I stayed on a friend's couch for 3 months.
Thu Dec 12, 2024, 10:24 PM
10 hrs ago

During my divorce my ex-husband told me he would burn the house down with me and my daughter in it if I didn't get out. I believed him. I took my daughter about an hour away to my grandmother's house and she lived there. I needed to be able to be close to work so I slept on a friend's couch.

I was able to buy a very old, postage stamp of a house even though I'm pretty sure I probably didn't qualify for the mortgage. I think the woman doing the paperwork pushed it through, pulled some strings, called in favors to get me into a house. My ex showed up at her office one day and was so threatening (because she was helping me) that they had to call the cops. She told me that she would do whatever it took to get me into my own place. She even offered to let me store my furniture in her garage.

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Recommended. H2O Man 16 hrs ago #1
Me ibegurpard 16 hrs ago #2
When I was a kid. For brief periods we were homeless and hungry and spent the occasional night in the car. Ping Tung 16 hrs ago #3
We never forget,do we? True Blue American 15 hrs ago #8
We ended up in an evangelical run homeless shelter. The car, if we'd had one, might have been better. SomewhereInTheMiddle 1 hr ago #27
What did Elon say about the homeless? New Breed Leader 15 hrs ago #4
Not completely but close. True Blue American 15 hrs ago #5
19 years old for two weeks. Midnight Writer 15 hrs ago #6
I'm so sorry about your roommate. Good friends like that are few and far between Iris 9 hrs ago #22
I'll check back with you in a few months lame54 15 hrs ago #7
When it counted Codifer 15 hrs ago #9
Twice when I was in college. redstatebluegirl 15 hrs ago #10
Me and my family were homeless from my ages of 8-14. Coventina 15 hrs ago #11
Yep n/t Cirsium 15 hrs ago #12
what's the difference between divorce and a tornado? rampartd 14 hrs ago #13
I couch surfed and lived in motels for a year and a half but was never completely out on the streets or in shelters. meadowlander 14 hrs ago #14
KnR Hekate 14 hrs ago #15
I ended up homeless the second time I was "asked" to take time off from school... hunter 12 hrs ago #16
I admire your perseverance. Iris 9 hrs ago #23
A very, very short period of time drmeow 12 hrs ago #17
I stayed on a friend's couch for 3 months. Chellee 10 hrs ago #18
Close DET 9 hrs ago #19
I Only Avoided Homelessness Because I Had Family Who Bailed Me Out ChoppinBroccoli 9 hrs ago #20
This message was self-deleted by its author Iggo 9 hrs ago #21
Twice. I was lucky though, I anticipated and was able to prepare. haele 8 hrs ago #24
Thanks for sharing your experience. Since reading the book Mike 03 3 hrs ago #25
After my marriage Ontheboundry 2 hrs ago #26
Me. TexasTowelie 49 min ago #28
Message auto-removed Name removed 30 min ago #29
Not sure I agree Johnny2X2X 8 min ago #30
Yes. happybird 1 min ago #31
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