I blame the patriarchy

[libodem]

2. I've always been about being equal

But attraction is more like a magnetic field. For me it is much more romantic when the man pays. At least at first.

I like to be the feminine one in the relationship after all these years of ponying up my half. It's good to be the girl.
And to have the male be feeling like a man. That's when the sparks fly. And that's the good part. It still works the same way after all these centuries. We can't rewrite biology.