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FirstLight

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4. yeah, that's the kicker... acquaintences aren't the same...

Reply to MLAA (Reply #2)

Tue Feb 25, 2025, 06:21 PM

Feb 25

After the big DV/attempted murder in October, I literally scoured my friends down to bare bones, now I wanna reach out again, but it's also scary. Even though my ex has NOBODY in this town, and any of our mutual friends online have divided themselves up...

I'm looking to re-start doing drumming circles and teaching my nature classes in Spring, maybe find a "new tribe" of people who are like minded

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How do I get friends to check in on me more? [View all] FirstLight Feb 25 OP

Where do you live in North Carolina? everyonematters Feb 25 #1

I'm in Tahoe...my kid is in NC FirstLight Feb 25 #3

I wouldn't be afraid to invite them over for a cup of coffee and a catch up chat. Then I'd give them an update on recen MLAA Feb 25 #2

yeah, that's the kicker... acquaintences aren't the same... FirstLight Feb 25 #4

I do miss going to drum circles. OldBaldy1701E Feb 25 #8

Wishing you all the best! I wouldn't have thought it would be easy to make new, good friends late in life (I'm 64) MLAA Feb 26 #11

The only way to have a friend is to be MotownPgh Feb 25 #5

I do as much non-trauma dumping as I can thanks FirstLight Feb 25 #6

I agree with you completely. OldBaldy1701E Mar 2 #13

Yes i learned this during covid MotownPgh Mar 2 #14

Call them and in the course of conversation, tell them you'd like to stay in closer touch SheltieLover Feb 25 #7

I did a lot of reaching out today, FirstLight Feb 25 #9

Great job! SheltieLover Feb 25 #10

I think loneliness is at all time highs and we are all afraid of one another. I don't LiberalLoner Feb 28 #12

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