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LiberalLoner

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13. My husband said last night, your family has always tried to destroy your happiness. Whatever

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Fri Feb 28, 2025, 09:11 AM

Feb 28

It is you love, they dump on.

You like creating art, so they make fun of you for that and put you down.

You like 60s music and the rock stars of that era, so they find a way to use that to hurt you and laugh at you.

Every accomplishment you’ve ever had, they’ve laughed, put you down, made you feel badly about yourself.

They are the toxic ones, the ones who are wrong.

You aren’t like them, and you don’t WANT to be like them, so they attack you twice as hard for not being mean and rotten like they are.

Lots of good wisdom from my husband who sees things more clearly than I can.

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I'm sorry. Thank you all for being kind. [View all] LiberalLoner Feb 27 OP

I'm glad you are here. Keep on posting. FSogol Feb 27 #1

Thank you 💙 LiberalLoner Feb 28 #7

I love your husband cyclonefence Feb 27 #2

He is a wonderful man and I'm grateful I have him as my husband. 💙 LiberalLoner Feb 28 #8

Your dh sounds like a keeper, I doubt they would have someone unworthy for a mate❤️ questionseverything Feb 27 #3

Thank you 💙. He is definitely a keeper! LiberalLoner Feb 28 #9

You will never be able to change the past..it already is done, but you can have a better future by leaving it all behind Deuxcents Feb 27 #4

Thank you. 💙. My husband is wonderful, it's true. Leaving a lifetime of being bullied in the past is hard, I will LiberalLoner Feb 28 #10

Change every way these ghouls can contact you !!!! Live without them !!!! Karadeniz Feb 27 #5

Thank you! I have. 💙 LiberalLoner Feb 28 #11

No apologies needed at all, LL! summer_in_TX Feb 28 #6

Thank you 💙 LiberalLoner Feb 28 #12

My husband said last night, your family has always tried to destroy your happiness. Whatever LiberalLoner Feb 28 #13

How are you feeling today? MIButterfly Feb 28 #14

Thank you so much! I am feeling better today, which I'm very grateful for. 💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Feb 28 #15

Hope you're feeling better XanaDUer2 Feb 28 #16

Thank you 💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Mar 1 #19

Sounds like you're the family scapegoat. I hated that crap. Only have a relationship with one Clouds Passing Feb 28 #17

Thank you 💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Mar 1 #18

Light and Love. OldBaldy1701E Mar 2 #20

Thank you so much! 💙. Hope you are doing well! 💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Mar 2 #21