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Bereavement

markie

(23,174 posts)

15. please know

Reply to imavoter (Original post)

Sat Nov 26, 2022, 07:26 AM

Nov 2022

we care... I lost my husband last year just before Thanksgiving... I don't even remember what I did last year on Thanksgiving day... it is still a blur.

Do what you must to take care of yourself.

This Thanksgiving I am with my brother and it helps

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Really struggling at 15 months out with losing my husband [View all] imavoter Nov 2022 OP

I'll bet your friends NJCher Nov 2022 #1

I'm also experiencing much of what you are. sprinkleeninow Nov 2022 #2

Thank you. imavoter Nov 2022 #21

I have a friend, Anna NJCher Nov 2022 #3

I did a little organizing and a lot of dog walks. Tetrachloride Nov 2022 #5

I'm so sorry DarthDem Nov 2022 #4

Just have to comment on this NJCher Nov 2022 #8

Bless the time you had with your husband. And understand that some people fierywoman Nov 2022 #6

I can sure understand imavoter CountAllVotes Nov 2022 #7

I lost my wife of 49 years 7 years ago MySideOfTown Nov 2022 #9

I'm so sorry for your loss. imavoter Nov 2022 #22

The hurt ain't never going to end MySideOfTown Nov 2022 #29

Yesterday at our late Thanksgiving dinner DFW Nov 2022 #10

Sending hugs Duncanpup Nov 2022 #11

(((((imavoter))))) John1956PA Nov 2022 #12

I wanted to share with you something I wrote moniss Nov 2022 #13

I will try to read, but sure made difficult by lack of paragraphing. I suggest you go back & edit.nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2022 #14

Yes it's a weakness moniss Nov 2022 #17

Posting "just for your own reading" misses the point of this group and this huge site Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2022 #18

Usually when I post here moniss Nov 2022 #25

Old people are often lonely. She seemed to be coping well. Any time we can give them conversation Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2022 #27

Very true and moniss Nov 2022 #28

please know markie Nov 2022 #15

Some great ideas here on this site. multigraincracker Nov 2022 #16

This Thanksgiving was an ass kicker here too IA8IT Nov 2022 #19

You're son too? imavoter Nov 2022 #20

He's 39 so my hope is he will find another and a second "Happily Ever After" IA8IT Nov 2022 #23

thank you for your kind words n/t imavoter Nov 2022 #24

I hear you. And I am so sorry about your loss. Maraya1969 Nov 2022 #26

We understand kozar Dec 2022 #30

thanks so much. imavoter Dec 2022 #31